This past Christmas season, our dining room centerpiece was a bowl full of red Christmas balls tossed with wine corks. But not just any wine corks. One of Charlie’s rituals after Sabbath dinners and other wine-worthy celebrations is to save the cork and Sharpie it with a nice title. Picture yourself back at the McDonalds play place in the plastic balls. You dropped something and you go digging against the quicksand. What a blessing it has been to dig through our bowl and remember some wonderful times around the table.
Let me now highlight our favorite cork of the year. Bulging at one end, it looks quite comfortable to be free from a skinny bottle neck, and stoutly bears the title “Charles’ Baptism Party 8/1/10.” This day was truly momentous. We were able to welcome our son into God’s family, surrounded by our families and our entire church body packed into our backyard. It is hard to top five smoking barbecues, over 40 pounds of tri-tip, a simmering mound of meat and rice cooked by our neighbor, a keg of good beer, a hammock bedecked with kids, 150+ brothers and sisters in Christ to celebrate with, and our sweet little collared-shirt boy snoozing in Great Grandma Lois’ lap.
If we had to pick one word to summarize 2010, it would be fellowship. “Monday dinner with Amaanda; Sunday Lunch; Dinner from the Trues; Dinner with Sam; Settlers Game Night; PDF; Leslie’s B-day Party; Family Camp- Dowers Cummings Dowers; Sabbath Dinner….” I look back at the dates and people represented in our collection, and this is how I want to remember the year: resting and clinking our knives and forks and glasses with each other and the people we love. But now I am second-guessing myself. What about our work weeks? What about Charlie’s success as a tournament host/teacher/backyard remodeler/diaper changer/date planner? What about my triumph over the burnt stock pot, new swaddling skills, or accomplishments with the Magic Eraser? Should we Sharpie these events too? Perhaps.
But I am starting to see our work, too, in the bowl of corks. I do not think you can separate the work from the rest. As we grow in faithfulness, they become a beautiful rhythm, and gain more meaning from each other. The fellowship becomes sweeter framed by days of labor. It reminds us of a Savior who has said: “It is finished,” so that we can rest, who has done it all so that we can simply be His children, and who has spilled His blood to fill our glasses.
And so I would like to propose one final toast for 2010: To the King and His abundantly kind mouthfuls.
Christmas Eve Breakfast
Christmas Dinner
